Painting of Grannie's house
Everything grew at Grannie Rabbit's house...family, children, flowers, grass, vegetables, pecans, rabbits, parakeets, dogs, cats, FROGS, and I'm sure she'd add 'weeds', but most importantly and forever lasting, LOVE!
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While riding the bus back and forth to school everyday, a young girl named Maude Alma Harris watched this house as it was built, likely never imagining what God's providence held for her there.
She met 'Dub', William Alfred Cleland, Jr., in the classroom of the newly built, red brick school they attended, the first of it's kind in Brantley County. Dub's father sub-contracted a crew of carpenters through to the completion of that project. Construction work was in great demand in their newly established county, and Dub's father is known to have built private homes and businesses during those early years. Later another wing was added to the west side of the brick building which became known as the county's first high school.
Maude was attracted to Dub's confidence and carpentry skills as a young apprentice. She appreciated the fact he didn't have to rely on farming as a livelihood because times were hard during the depression. Dub completed his education at the conclusion of his seventh grade year, then he quickly went to work to help put food on the table for his family. This was the norm for young men his age during this era.
Maude and Dub's friendship led to courtship, at which time he gave her a string of pearls which she wore in the photo above. Their marriage took place in the month of April, 1927. Grannie was sixteen years of age, and would be 17 in August.
Their first anniversary was followed by the birth of their first son but tragically, he was stillborn. Two years later, joy was restored when a second son was born, my father, Thomas Earl.
Photo: My Dad and his parents, ~1931-1932
Love continued to grow and God added more strength with the addition of three more sons, Wannis, Johnnie, and Donald. Then sadly, another stillborn baby was born, a girl Grannie named Carol.
I wonder if Grannie knew the meaning of her name...
"Song of Praise".
I wonder when Grannie's favorite verse became 1 Thessalonians 5:18?
I wonder when Grannie learned to give thanks in everything?
Did she learn to love the LORD more because she did?
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Dan Jones owned a saw mill, and it is believed he built this house positioned behind the mill. The house was rectangular, a shotgun style structure, which originally had four symmetrically divided rooms, two bedrooms, a living room, and a dining room. It did not have a bathroom or kitchen, but a kitchen was added before my father's family moved in. My father was 12 years old at that time (1942-1943).
Dad shared what it was like to 'wash up' prior to adding on a bathroom...
"When I was going to school, I would wash-up, upper body, head-face, brush-teeth, and prepare for school on the back porch, always observant of the school buses that would be bringing kids to school and dodge back away from the faucet where I would be bathing, so not to be observed by the children on the school bus passing by."
My father lived in this home for five years before enlisting in the Air Force.His parents had to sign for him to join.
When he was able, he sent money home which was used to cover the cost of installing fixtures while his father covered the expense of purchasing lumber and a septic tank. The family finally enjoyed an indoor bathroom.
Sadly, I never met my grandfather. He passed away at the young age of 50, it is believed of a heart attack, a couple of years before I was born.
Grannie remained the strong and devoted matriarch of her family to the end. She had a sensitive spirit, and claimed her faith in the LORD and love for her family was what kept her strong. She loved her life. She loved being home. Her work was her yard and garden, where she once said she communed with the LORD.
Two out of four sons built their homes on lots next to and behind Grannie's house, which made for awesome gatherings of four brothers and their families when we visited.
When we visited Grannie, we visited everyone, because everyone was usually there! Those who weren't wanted to be and came when they could!
My earliest memories of Grannie's house dates back to the late 1960's. I remember taking a bath in her old fashioned bathtub. Whether it had claw feet, I don't remember, but eventually, it was taken out and replaced with a shower stall. I've wished for a long time I had an old fashioned tub like Grannie's.
Grannie always had good food on the table when we visited, and maintained her home as best as she could for all of her children to return to. She always made sure there was plenty of love to go around!
Oh, how I miss those days!
Grannie drew us all together.
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Grannie's last visit in our home was for the purpose of meeting her newest great-granddaughter, Katherine. While we held her captive here, we took her to Olan Mills and had her photographed. She worried that her hair was a mess, but I thought it looked beautiful. I longed to capture her sweet spirit and smile, what I thought to be the most beautiful thing about her.
Grannie lived in her home alone for 42 years after her 'Dub' passed away, but almost a year after she visited with us, she fell at the age of 89 1/2 years of age, at which time she suffered a fractured thigh which required special care.
Had it not been for Aunt Wanda who provided great love and care for Grannie almost daily in her home, taking her food and helping her with chores, Grannie may not have lingered as long in her home. Aunt Wanda's care of Grannie during those years, prior to her fall, is immeasurable and honorable, a priceless expression of the kind of love Grannie grew.
Two years later, Grannie passed away much too soon, and eventually her old house was dismantled because of rotting floor joists. There were occasions while Grannie lived in her home that my uncles worked under her house to restore what they could to keep the floor from falling through. They maintained the house well for many years after their father passed away.
If I were to take you for a drive down that street today where Grannie's house once stood, you'd see an empty lot, but I'd see the place where Grannie's love grew. Much tilling and toil went into this place, and the plowpan ran deep. Bedded within my heart are the roots which still remain!
Uncle Donald saved wood from Grannie's house and made frames which show the beautiful scars of old nail holes that held together the structure where Grannie's love grew. Aunt Wanda crafted special gifts to go inside so we'd never forget.
Although the house is gone, the property remains and is maintained nicely. It thrilled my heart to see it so well cared for when we last visited.
Some of Grannie's favorite trees and plants continue to grow!
This is the tree that left impressionable sounds... falling pecans hitting Grannie's metal roof and...
our car parked in the driveway next to the tree!

Grannie's love for her LORD and family is what made her home the special place it was for all of us! She loved her home and made it a memorable gathering place for her family to visit. I don't doubt she thought as long as she lived, she had more work there to do, and she did, but when the LORD called her to her forever "Home", we were all the more aware that the greatest gifts of love and family she left behind would lend to us responsibilities that should never end!
Note of gratitude: Thank you, Dad...aka-Poppy, for your priceless, historical contribution to this post!
Love Will Be Our Home
By Sandi Patty
If home is really where the heart is
And home must be a place we all can share
For even with our differences, our hearts are much the same
For where love is we come together there
Wherever there is laughter ringing
Someone smiling, someone dreaming
We can live together there
Love will be our home
Wherever there are children singing
Where a tender heart is beating
We can live together there
'Cause love will be our home
With love our hearts can be a family
And hope can bring this family face to face
And though we may be far apart
Our hearts can be as one
When love brings us together in one place
Wherever there is laughter ringing
Someone smiling, someone dreaming
We can live together there
Love will be our home
Where there are words of kindness spoken
Where a vow is never broken
We can live together there
Cause love will be our home
Love will, love will be our home...
Wherever there is laughter ringing
Someone smiling, someone dreaming
We can live together there
Love will be our home
Wherever there are children singing
Where a tender heart is beating
We can live together there
Cause love will be our home
Love will, love will be our home...
Wherever there is laughter ringing
Someone smiling, someone dreaming
We can live together there
Cause love will be our home
Love will be our home.