Sunday, February 28, 2021

Willing and Worthy

 













A young man who is worthy of a wife will have a clear understanding of the covenantal nature of marriage.  He will also have a healthy apprehension when he thinks about the magnitude of his responsibility should he assume the role of a husband and father. He must know the weight he is taking on his shoulders and be willing to accept it.  He must be a man who is willing to endure hardship for the sake of his family should he be called upon to do so. 

Voddie T. Baucham, Jr.,  

What He Must Be: If He Wants to Marry my Daughter. 

Photo: Susan Dixon Photography, LLC

Friday, February 26, 2021

My Mother’s Request















The Sabbath morn dawns o’er the mountain brow,

And lights the earth with glory soft and mild

Oh, think’st thou, dearest mother, even now

Of me, thy youngest and most wayward child?

For this, my mother, is the sacred hour

When thou didst bid me ever think of thee

Oh, surely nothing earthly could have power

To break the spell which hallows it to me.

Thy loving look, thy feeble voice, I seem,

Though years have passed, to see and hear again.

Not as the shadowy fancies of a dream,

But as distinct, as vivid now as then.

‘When in my Saviour’s glorious home I dwell,

Forget not this my last request to thee

When soundeth forth the early Sabbath bell,

Where’er thou art, my Fanny, think of me!’

Oh, why was this thy dying wish—thy last?

Thou would’st not think that I should e’er forget

My mother’s love, that passing years might cast

A cloudy veil, where that bright star did set;

But well thou knew’st I could not think of thee

Without remembering Him with whom thou art,

To whom thou oft didst pray so fervently

That I might give my wandering, wilful heart.

I must remember too the joyful faith

Which filled thy soul e’en in thy dying hour,

And led thee calmly through the vale of death;

There I must ever see its wondrous power.

I could not but fulfil thy last desire,

The last sweet echo of thy loving voice,

Calling my mind each Sabbath morning higher,

Where thou in endless Sabbath dost rejoice.

Oft when I wavered, slipped, and nearly fell,

Yet stunned and giddy heeded not my fate,

The fatal charm was broken by that bell,

Thy memory oped my eyes ere yet too late.

And oft when sad and hopeless seemed my way,

Its sweet sound told me of the victory

Which thy bright faith hath gained, and then a ray

Of hope hath whispered, ‘Such may be for thee.’

Oh, ’twas a mother’s love which did devise

This gentle way of helping her child’s soul;

Not on earth only, but from yon bright skies

To aid her steps towards the heavenly goal.

Oh, Thou who dwellest with Thy ransomed, where

The one long Sabbath ne’er may darkly close,

By Thy rich mercy grant this earliest prayer,

Which oft for me from her dear lips arose.

Bring me, oh, bring me to Thy house of light,

That there with my loved mother I may dwell,

And e’er rejoicing in Thy presence bright,

May praise Thy love, who doest all things well.

By Frances Ridley Havergal


Photo:  Joanna, my niece, surprised me by stopping by last night unexpectedly to bring me a small cheesecake and roses.  Her dear heart wanted me to know she loves me and is praying for me as I adjust to our one and only’s absence.  

Yes, I sobbed, she hugged me tight, and we both cried! Wish I’d taken her picture! 🥰

Wednesday, February 24, 2021

He Weaveth Steadily


 











My life is but a weaving between my God and me,

I cannot choose the colors, 

He weaveth steadily. 

Oft times He weaveth sorrow,

And I, in foolish pride, 

Forget He sees the upper, 

And I the under side. 

Not ‘til the loom is silent, 

And the shuttles cease to fly

Will God unroll the canvas and reveal the reason why. 


The dark threads are as needful 

In the weaver’s skillful hand,

As the threads of gold and silver

In the pattern He has planned.

He knows, He loves, He cares,

Nothing this truth can dim.

He gives the very best to those

Who leave the choice to Him. 

Author Unknown


My dear friend, Susan, delivered a gift at my door step this past Sunday morn to lift and encourage me. 

It did that, lift and encourage, but every pent up emotion from giving away our one and only the day before came bursting forth as I sat at the bottom of the stairs in a puddle mixed with grief and gratitude for our loss and gain! 

Susan has been a steady presence of  strength and spiritual encouragement through my letting go season the last 3 1/2 years.  I’m thankful the LORD has given me a friend in her.  We’ve both given up and gained in one another what we’ve needed by simply being accessible to one another.  

I’m thankful that in spite of the 951 miles between us, she leans in and brightens my days and makes a special effort to include me in her life.  I’m immensely grateful she desires to lean in to mine! 

The poem above is an encouraging reminder of how the LORD allowed and used a past trial between us to weave a beautiful relationship now for which I am very thankful!  

P.S.- The small woven throw on the chair (in the photo) was gifted to me by Susan to remind me of God’s hand at work in my life. Though in this season the view from the bottom side appears dark (emotionally draining) some days, the LORD is at work, and His plan will one day be complete and bring to light the brighter beauty, His best gifts and accomplished will for my life! 

Note:  I cannot be sure who authored this poem.  Some have credited it to B.M. Franklin, and others to Corrie Ten Boom.  Whatever the case, this uncertainty reminds me that some details are not important.  If God, The Weaver, our Creator knows every warp and woof of our being, He will use and allow what He wills, even this uncertainty, to shape and conform the thoughts of readers by this unknowing to trust Him more. 


Tuesday, February 23, 2021

Come Thy Fount

 












“Christian, how did you enjoy comfort before? 

Was the creature anything to you but a conduit, 

a pipe, that conveyed God's goodness to you? 

'The pipe is cut off,' says God, 

‘come to me, the fountain, and drink immediately.' 

Though the beams are taken away, yet the sun remains the same in the firmament as ever it was.”

Jeremiah Burroughs


Photo: Susan Dixon Photography, LLC

Monday, February 22, 2021

Happy Wedding Day!!

 

















Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. 

And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.

Genesis 2:24-25


Dear Luke and Katherine, 


Happy Wedding Day,


I am thankful that in God’s gracious and loving providence He has brought you to this day!  


I pray you will come to know more fully how Faithful the LORD has been and will always be towards you in leading you to one another! 

I pray you will daily pause and take time to cleave to Him, to be refreshed and renewed by His presence as you seek to faithfully love one another...

Agnus Dei

Corem Deo


❤️ you more...


Photo credit:  Susan Dixon Photography, LLC

Wednesday, February 17, 2021

Ish and Isha


 















Then the man said,

“This at last is bone of my bones

    and flesh of my flesh;

she shall be called Woman,

    because she was taken out of Man.”

Genesis 2:23


Dear Luke and Katherine, 

Matthew Henry continues, “...this lovely creature, now presented to him was a piece of himself, and was to be his companion and the wife of his covenant.” 


As Christ took on flesh so He could lay down his life for us, so each of you will covenant your lives and bodies to sacrifice for one another. 


“Further, in token of [Adam’s] acceptance of [Eve], he gave her a name, not peculiar to her, but common to her sex: She shall be called woman, Isha, a she-man, differing from man [ish] in sex only, not in nature—made of man, and joined to man.”


Katherine, woman was made for man. 

You were made for Luke, to distinctively compliment and complete him; you cannot perfect him, because his image was created to bear God’s image.  PLEASE do not neglect to DAILY read and apply the Owner’s manual full of instructions for how to love Luke, and Luke, likewise!!  There are instructions there that only The Word Himself will give you on how to be adequately suited for one another.  


❤️ you more...


Monday, February 15, 2021

Oneness: Know God Together

 

















Dear Luke and Katherine, 


21 So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. 

22 And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. 

Genesis 2


I pray you will linger a little longer to meditate on the heart of the LORD as you consider all He has accomplished in bringing your lives together.  

I soo love/enjoy this passage, and especially MH’s commentary of it!!


I believe this is one of his most noted/quoted commentaries in the creation summary.  I pray you will marvel at his words.  


However, I’d like to first begin with this quote about Genesis 2:21-23, (https://www.biblenotes.org.uk/old-testament/Genesis/2/#f6), 


“Man is incomplete without woman, for she is taken from him.

Although Adam named the animals, his first recorded words are about Eve, the woman. Here is God's plan, that man and woman dwell together, enjoying each other, and enjoying God together.” ❤️


Matthew Henry expounds pointedly and tenderly of the LORD’s heart for man’s provision, and how He accomplished what He knew would be a most compassionate and life altering change for man... 


“That God caused a sleep to fall on Adam, and made it a deep sleep, that so the opening of his side might be no grievance to him; while he knows no sin, God will take care he shall feel no pain. When God, by his providence, does that to his people which is grievous to flesh and blood, he not only consults their happiness in the issue, but by his grace he can so quiet and compose their spirits as to make them easy under the sharpest operations.”


This ...

“That the woman was made of a rib out of the side of Adam; not made out of his head to rule over him, nor out of his feet to be trampled upon by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be beloved. Adam lost a rib, and without any diminution to his strength or comeliness (for, doubtless, the flesh was closed without a scar); but in lieu thereof he had a help meet for him, which abundantly made up his loss: what God takes away from his people he will, one way or other, restore with advantage. In this (as in many other things) Adam was a figure of him that was to come; for out of the side of Christ, the second Adam, his spouse the church was formed, when he slept the sleep, the deep sleep, of death upon the cross, in order to which his side was opened, and there came out blood and water, blood to purchase his church and water to purify it to himself. See Eph. 5:25, 26.


May this be for you today a quickening and encouraging meditation as you anticipate your one-fleshness, the union of your lives, which began in the heart of God at the beginning of time.  He joined a man and his suitable helper/wife together!!  God’s creation story continued for your good, your enjoyment, that you may know His purpose for your relationship, and grow together in your love for him and one another. 


❤️you more! 


Photo credit:  Susan Dixon Photography, LLC

Thursday, February 11, 2021

Suitable Call

 


















Dear Luke and Katherine, 


19 Now out of the ground the Lord God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. 

20 The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. 

Genesis 2


I pray you’ll each have an humble awareness, like Adam,  that your image bears witness of a close fellowship with the LORD, and that by His hand, His wise and loving call for your lives will be perfectly supplied. 

I pray you will grow in a greater reverence and trust of Him, and in a deeper, sacrificial love for one another.  I am thankful to believe He has suitably called you together to accomplish His purpose, for His glory. 

❤️ you more...


Photo credit:  Susan Dixon Photography, LLC

Tuesday, February 9, 2021

The One Gives Oneness

 












Dear Luke and Katherine, 


Because I appreciate review, ...😊

Genesis 2:18  And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. 


Man was happy in his state of sinlessness, and had all he could wish for to be happy!  

God was good to give to him Himself!  

Man was given favor, ease, and joy in his work and responsibilities, comfort in the laws of his covenant relationship with his Creator, and honor in his person for living. 

God created, supplied, and satisfied for man’s needs, but He also understood man’s solitude, which was not good, and thus desired he be given companionship with his kind. 


Matthew Henry simply states for observation, 

 “...God graciously resolved to provide society for him.The result of this reasoning concerning him was this kind resolution, I will make a help-meet for him; a help like him (so some read it), one of the same nature and the same rank of beings; a help near him (so others), one to cohabit with him, and to be always at hand; a help before him (so others), one that he should look upon with pleasure and delight. “


Matthew Henry says, 

•“It is God who perfectly knows our wants, and is perfectly able to supply them all, Phil. 4:19. In him alone our help is, and from him are all our helpers.

•A suitable wife is a help-meet, and is from the Lord. The relation is then likely to be comfortable when meetness directs and determines the choice, and mutual helpfulness is the constant care and endeavour, 1 Co. 7:33, 34.

•Family-society, if it is agreeable, is a redress sufficient for the grievance of solitude. He that has a good God, a good heart, and a good wife, to converse with, and yet complains he wants conversation, would not have been easy and content in paradise; for Adam himself had no more: yet, even before Eve was created, we do not find that he complained of being alone, knowing that he was not alone, for the Father was with him. Those that are most satisfied in God and his favour are in the best way, and in the best frame, to receive the good things of this life, and shall be sure of them, as far as Infinite Wisdom sees good.”


I have no doubt that the LORD has favored  you, Luke, by setting Katherine apart for you.  I still marvel to consider the details of His plan to bring you together! 

God is good and gracious!! 

He has complimented each of you in one another! 

He will continue to refine and fitly join you to one another, and that work will be required in His time,  as understood, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, 5and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?

6So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate (Matthew 19:5-6).”


I pray the covenant vows you make with God and one another on your wedding day will deepen your understanding of who God is, and cause you to be AWED by the work of oneness that He will accomplish.  

Your oneness is by One!  

The fleshing out of daily togetherness will cause you to become quickly aware of your obvious differences.  Some days they will seem like great divides and conflicts.  You will become more aware of your own [foolish?] preconceived ideas and desires, but I pray you will quickly learn to humbly acknowledge and accept love and order from the One who has ordained your oneness, for His glory, not your own. 

I pray you will learn to laugh and smile at your unique and perfect blending of lives.  God has brought you together to accomplish His purpose! 

Again, I pray you’ll make a practice of bowing together often in prayer to submit your wills and trust to the One at work in the blending and fitting together of your lives in oneness! 


❤️you more...


Photo credit:  Susan Dixon Photography, LLC

Monday, February 8, 2021

A Helper Fit for Him

 

















Dear Luke and Katherine,


As we anticipate the fast approaching wonder and union of your lives as man and wife, I pray you’ll bear with my mother’s love and meditation to be weaned on Scripture and share some highlights from Matthew Henry’s commentary of Genesis 2 before your wedding day...





Genesis 2:18-

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” 

Matthew Henry states, 

“I. An instance of the Creator's care of man and his fatherly concern for his comfort, v. 18. Though God had let him know that he was a subject, by giving him a command, (v. 16, 17), yet here he lets him know also, for his encouragement in his obedience, that he was a friend, and a favourite, and one whose satisfaction he was tender of. 

Observe,

[I LOVE this!!]


“1. How God graciously pitied his solitude: It is not good that man, this man, should be alone. Though there was an upper world of angels and a lower world of brutes, and he between them, yet there being none of the same nature and rank of beings with himself, none that he could converse familiarly with, he might be truly said to be alone. 

Now he that made him knew both him and what was good for him, better than he did himself, and he said, "It is not good that he should continue thus alone.'



















(1.) It is not for his comfort; for man is a sociable creature. It is a pleasure to him to exchange knowledge and affection with those of his own kind, 

to inform and to be informed, 

to love and to be beloved. 

What God here says of the first man Solomon says of all men (Eccl. 4:9, etc.), that two are better than one, and woe to him that is alone. 

If there were but one man in the world, what a melancholy man must he needs be! 

Perfect solitude would turn a paradise into a desert, and a palace into a dungeon. Those therefore are foolish who are selfish and would be place alone in the earth.



















(2.) It is not for the increase and continuance of his kind. God could have made a world of men at first, to replenish the earth, as he replenished heaven with a world of angels: but the place would have been too strait for the designed number of men to live together at once; 

therefore God saw fit to make up that number by a succession of generations, which, as God had formed man, must be from two, and those male and female; one will be ever one.”




















I am praying for each of you today.  

Dad and I are awed by the many details the LORD has orchestrated and perfected to bring your lives together, that He may unite you as one to put on display His love for His Church!!  ❤️ 

T’is a mystery! 

Thank you for being patient with us, for praying for us, and for encouraging us as we transition from our much loved, privileged and treasured responsibilities as parents to now coming alongside you to cheer you along in faith and your walk together with the LORD. 

Please continue to pray for us as we learn what it means and looks like to let go and live by the means of His perfect provision, through the channels of His faithfulness.  

We are thankful for what He is doing, we love you both, and we anticipate by faith what God will accomplish as He grows and strengthens your bonds! 

❤️you more! 




Reflections from Luke’s marriage proposal to Katherine in Duluth, Brighton Bay, MN on Lake Superior, October 1, 2020. 

Photo credit: Friend, Kyle, and Luke’s family. 



Tuesday, February 2, 2021

Forsaking ALL Others to Cling to Thee Only















Dear Beloved Sons,


I continue to pray Proverbs 7 for each of you...

You’ve grown into adult men, yet my heart remains tender and jealous for your eyes and minds to know and experience God’s most gracious gifts, specifically in your marriages.   I pray you will treasure having a wife who seeks to be satisfied in the LORD daily!!  I have prayed they would love you and help you seek Him.  I pray they will encourage you to draw from the well of God’s rich supply.  I continue to pray the LORD will hedge you in and protect you, preserve you from deprecating temptations that will weaken  your faith, and demean His reputation! 

I pray the LORD will help you to forsake the kind of women on your path who sell themselves, short of God’s holy image bearing qualities.  

If you should know or ever meet a woman who flaunts herself in a way that causes you to think your wife is not enough, I pray you will run from her, hard and fast, before she snags your gaze, captures your mind and heart, and ruins your life!!  

Please run hard and fast after the LORD who has favored you to give you a wife!  Please do not allow yourself to think less of or cheapen the value of the gifts God has given you in her!! Her worth is far above rubies because she fears the LORD instead of loving and flaunting herself! 


Please prayerfully consider and weigh the words of a king God favored for a season, but whose heart was tempted and turned away from Him because of women who did not fear Him! 


❤️Mom~


Photo: Beloved Niece, Joanna