“…Make it your habit to ask your husband or wife questions like these:
How can I serve you today?
How can I make your day better?
How can I make your evening easier?
In what ways can I be a blessing to you today?
Is there anything I can get you?
Is there anything I can do for you?
How can I let you know today that I love you?
And perhaps even better, commit to consistently doing the things you know will serve your spouse, that will make your wife’s day better, that will make your husband’s evening easier.
Serve, serve, and serve some more.
Act in love even when you don’t feel loved, act with grace even if you don’t feel particularly gracious.
Sow extravagant love to the love of your life, and reap the reward of joy.
For the path to joy in marriage leads away from you and runs straight to your spouse.”
Tim Challis
https://www.challies.com/articles/one-key-to-a-joyful-marriage

